The funny thing about specialized sexual demographics is that people often assume that you have a fetish if you focus on a particular demographic. For example, white guys who prefer Asian women are seen to have a David Bowie fetish. Similarly, white women who prefer black men are dismissed as having jungle fever fetish.
This really is too bad because, let’s face it. Sexual attraction doesn’t have to be a fetish. A fetish, if you really look at it from a fundamental perspective, is unfair. It comes from the perspective that somehow, someway your tastes, be they sexual or interpersonal, are somehow outside of the norm. Somehow, someway, you’re not normal if you think this way.
The good news is if you’re looking for a cougar fuck that it doesn’t have to be a fetish. In fact, it’s very normal. All these women are otherwise normal. The only big difference is that they fall outside of the standard of beauty or sexual attraction that general American culture imposes on all of us.
You have to remember that the whole definition of beauty is rooted in youth. How fucked up is that? How unfair is that? Because you have to remember that all people get older and guess what? Regardless of your age, you don’t stop being sexy hence cougar dating is so popular. So, if you reject the whole idea of a cougar fuck as some sort of weird fetish, then you are well on your way to having better relationships and better experiences with older women.
